Today is going to be a short, but very important message that I’ve been thinking about all week.

    Lately, I’ve been asking myself about how to better show my love to the people around me. Our family is really at a very important point here as we take over the youth ministry full time. It puts us in a position that is dedicated to the betterment of others. So how do you communicate care, love, and authenticity to those that you have just met? How do you positively effect others that you know very well (such as your spouse)? I think it has to do with consistency.

    If you can push yourself to be there for people unconditionally, it will speak volumes to who you are and your intentions. Being dependable in someone’s life will show them that you have integrity and are genuine. Just be present and intentional. Others will start to realize that when you say something, you mean it. This is a gift all on its own. It doesn’t matter what you say or really do as long as you are there. Your presence is all they need.

    Be like the North Star. For centuries sailors, explorers, and vagabonds have used  this reliable star to help them find their way when lost. It can be depended on because it is steadily there. May your life be a star that doesn’t go out. May you shine love on others always. May your motto be:

                                                        This

                                                        Star
            
                                                       Won’t

                                                         Go

                                                        Out!


    I pray that this weekend and coming week will be a great one for you. Know that we love you and want to be there consistently for you.

Questions
Who is the most consistent person in your life?
What does your spouse do for you consistently?

Thanks guys!

-Mitch

* “This Star Wont Go Out” is also the name of an awesome foundation dedicated to financially assist families struggling through the journey of a child living with cancer. Their website is www.tswgo.com and you can buy a really cool “tswgo” bracelett for $5 from http://dftba.com/product/wv/This-Star-Wont-Go-Out-ADULT-SIZE-bracelet and all the proceeds (minus shipping) go to the foundation. Check out this awesome cause!
 
Mitch and I have repeatedly mentioned Gary Chapman's book The Five Love Languages assuming that most people would be familiar with it. We have also tried to outline his principles. However, if you have not had time to read the book yet and want to know more about what it is all about, check out this program on the Family Life Today website. It is Gary Chapman himself talking about the five love languages. It is very funny and even though Mitch and I know the basics, it was a great reminder for us!
http://www.familylife.com/search-results?searchText=past+programs
Enjoy the program and have a wonderful Monday!
 
Reminder! This month, Mitch will begin posting on Saturdays instead of Thursdays. So if you came here looking for his blog, please check back on Saturday!

I did, however, want to take this opportunity to post a link to a program I listened to this morning on the Family Life Today website. They are a great organization dedicated to helping Christian marriages and families. I would seriously encourage you to check out their site for articles and to listen to past programs. The one I am linking you to is the first in a series titled "Lasting Love" (part 1) with Alistair Begg. He discusses the challenges of oneness, the importance of marriage vows, and the commitment that is needed to keep a marriage strong. I hope you enjoy it as much as I did!

http://www.familylife.com/site/c.dnJHKLNnFoG/b.6240603/k.C318/Find_past_programs.htm

God Bless!
Nathana